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Sometimes, being lost can be good for you and your brain. When was the last time you were lost, either physically (couldn’t find the restaurant you were looking for) or in a more psychological sense (didn’t feel you had direction in your job or social life)?

Being lost is part of finding what is essential to you.It can be the most rewarding form of profound discovery when you are lost and then find what you are looking for (sometimes not even what you thought you would find). Here are three ways being lost can ultimately be helpful: learning, self-discovery, and gaining self-confidence when being creative.

Being lost through learning

Being lost can lead to deeper learning about yourself, your goals and your interests. You probably do not know what you want in your life when you start college. If you think you know, you might be presented with new options you didn’t know about once you started college. Early in our education, we might think we know what we want, only to realize it isn’t precisely mapped out in the ways we expected.
At some point, we feel lost, figuring out what to pursue (both regarding future job prospects and partners). College may feel like a giant learning experience, and part of the process is being lost at some point. About 35 per cent of students enter college with an “undecided” major, and about 75 per cent of students change their major at least once before graduation. Having the confidence to change major shows you can realize you were lost or found something new that is a better fit for who you are and what you want to do. At other times of personal development, sometimes people may turn to religion or friends and family as a guide, especially when they encounter more significant challenges in life.
You might feel lost when you start a new job, relationship, or parenting, but all of these challenges can be rewarding if you take them on, knowing there will be times you are meant to learn from feeling lost.

Being lost through self-discovery

Our brain is addicted to problem-solving. Wh_n you re_d th_s sent_nce, you f_ll in the g_ps. When you are forced to fill in the gaps and solve these simple word problems, you remember much better what you read when there are these missing letters/fill-in-the-blanks than when you simply read without the challenge of filling in the missing letters. But it likely doesn’t feel as easy, and it can slow you down, making the learning process more challenging. 

The same is true when you are learning something new, whether training for a new job or trying to learn a new language.

You might initially feel you don’t understand things; you are guessing at possible answers, but this lost state allows your brain to build necessary “scaffolds” that lead to deeper learning fostered by this initial state of being lost. You will remember things longer if you are lost in the learning process and then discover a deeper understanding of what you are learning. The same is true for most life challenges – we often remember challenges and mistakes we made and what was learned from these failures. Sometimes, a little failure early in the learning process can be good.

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Being lost through gaining self-confidence when being creative

Today, we have GPS to guide us when driving and Google Maps to tell us how to get somewhere when visiting a new city. These tools keep us from getting lost. But sometimes getting lost is a good thing, as it forces us to be more aware of our surroundings. Hopefully, Google won’t send you down a dark alley where you don’t want to be lost, so it is essential to pay attention to your surroundings and not just your phone. People often report feeling lost when they don’t have their phone with them and/or when their phone battery dies.

But it can be a retreat after a few hours (or a few days, if you can handle it). Also, your brain eventually enjoys the challenge of figuring out ways to function when you are lost without a phone. It can also empower and boost self-confidence by being free from a technological vice.

Figuring out a way to navigate without technology can be refreshing, as can finding new solutions, which is one reason escape rooms are now a popular form of social interaction and creative recreation. Escape rooms and virtual escape games may benefit younger children and older adults by encouraging problem-solving when feeling lost.

Thus, you can feel lost without leaving your living room with virtual games.

There are many simple ways to get lost and challenge your mind—reading a fascinating book (perhaps especially a good mystery novel), engaging in some conversation about a topic you don’t know much about, or just trying something new that isn’t in your usual repertoire (lost in a menu at a new restaurant). Getting lost makes you and your brain grow, and while scary at times, you can enjoy the benefits. Get lost!

Ramesh Verma CMD – the 2nd Online Travel – Pandey Pur Travel Agency Varanasi, Uttar Pradesh